Sexually harassed at work on camera, HR said the footage had already expired. Investigation was closed. Harasser later promoted to leadership. How do I empower myself here without having to leave?

2021.10.21 01:25 _pentazemin Sexually harassed at work on camera, HR said the footage had already expired. Investigation was closed. Harasser later promoted to leadership. How do I empower myself here without having to leave?

Sorry friends, this is long. My harasser grabbed me and wet-kissed my bare shoulders a lot while drunk and I moved away. I was so shocked that I just backed away and said "ew." He did it so casually and then moved away afterwards. It happened on security camera.
He also sent weird romantic emoticons through DMs while also calling me his heart throughout the year leading up to this. Afterwards he started carelessly mismanaging my time during projects we were working on, this eventually became disruptive to our project timeline.
One day I made a typo on an email and he started joking/accusing me that I was drunk. Then he started asking me to "just admit it" and that "I can trust him." I finally recontextualized all of this as him continuing to try and exert power over me.
I finally told my manager I would start searching for a job elsewhere and told her about everything that happened to explain why I was leaving. They wanted to keep me on and talk it out. Due to mandatory reporting, this ended up as an HR investigation. He denied any memory of the event, HR said they checked the cameras but learned they actually delete the footage every week and that it was long gone. The outcome was that we'd be moved to separate projects and not have to talk anymore.
I had a severe psychiatric crisis at this point, and I took medical leave. I returned after my medical leave and the harasser was promoted to leadership within a month and also given a freaking award for "integrity" by our director of management who is also aware of the entire case.
I'm legally without any leverage. I've verbally confirmed with HR so many times, that "i'm fine" and "feel supported" by them. We've all had to sign arbitration agreements to get our benefits. I feel so insecure about my position here that I'm afraid of complaining about anything or refusing arbitration agreements.
Seeing this person in leadership amongst others who knew of the case is driving me insane and hurting my work and mental health. I love my job but these incidents victimized me, exposed my complaint, and further traumatized me. I can only assume that these people that elevated my harasser must think I'm a liar. I've always been a high output contributor in this role.
I put a lot of sweat into this job and I'm good at it. It has been so hard to get my career together. I don't want to leave because of this. I feel like my harasser would be winning if I did that.
Has anyone had an experience like this but where you were able to feel empowered again at work without having to leave?
(I work at a real estate tech company in NYC)
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2021.10.21 01:25 dopeykid420 One of my Shift leaders asked me if I would like to leave early when closing. Like 40 to 30 minutes before my schedule time. (My store closes at 11pm) I said "I'll like to stay and finish my full shift." Is that normal for Managers to ask partners if they like leave early?

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2021.10.21 01:25 WorryLittle771 Just Applied-Some Questions

So, I just applied for the apprentice trainer vacancy Monday because while I have grown up on a kennel and have trained dogs for SAR, MWD, local K9s, field trials and trained and bred beagles for border patrol, I'm not "certified" in the classical sense. So I chose apprentice. Now, I started this in the late 80's (I was training dogs since I was 5) and I've always owned/trained my own dogs and have kept up on changes in training theories/dog behavior. I just couldn't find a specific "class" that I felt really ticked all the boxes to get my certification. I also unfortunately moved a lot because of the military and just got back stateside for the 1st time in 2.5 years from South Korea. I was an extreme medical/behavior foster there for the only no kill shelter at the time. And my two dogs are meat farm rescues (literally got my corgi as they were in the process of haggling for the price of him, and my beagle/corgi/jindo mix was the last of a litter that came from one we shut down). I got so bored over there from a lack of finding committed people who would pay for even basic manners for their dogs that I taught my corgi schutzhund lol. I know petco is very basic and will help as far as some certifications/classes/training and getting my feet wet for the more professional world of training non contract dogs.
What do you think my chances are for being on the short list for their apprentice hiring program? I know the pay and work hours/environment can be horrible, but I truly do enjoy just training dogs and teaching owners how to better communicate, handle and treat their dogs. Should I have gone for the regular trainer and not apprentice because of my background? Or was I right in choosing apprentice since I have no formal training certs for myself, just dogs that we trained that passed certifications and contracts when I was growing up? My application is currently "in process, under review" so I'm guessing I made it past the computer screening at least?

Also- if you have a preferred certification "class" which one is it an why? Part of my reason for not doing this sooner was because of the whole different theories that people try to teach around. Having grown up doing this, I've been more of a gentle teaching/going with a dog's natural instinct training approach instead of the harsh yelling, choking dogs with improper chains (because it should never choke the dog, its supposed to be the sound it makes that signals an unwanted behavior), and using fewer treats and finding toys or praise that works. I know some dogs are only driven by food treats but I see so many over weight dogs it breaks my heart. I'm also not a fan of e-collars but have learned better ways to implement them if clients insist on it (and the fact that there's vibrating ones now instead makes me happy)
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2021.10.21 01:25 NoShftShck16 Fossil Gen 6 vs Galaxy Watch 4 Classic for a Non-Samsung (Pixel) Owner

I posted this in /GooglePixel as well but wanted to get y'alls opinion too. Mainly because I'm sure there are a lot of Watch 4 owners whose opinion I'd want to hear, but also would be interested to hear from those people who have a Gen 6 with a Samsung phone and why they went that route.

Original post below:
I knew the Pixel watch wouldn't come to fruition this year but I wanted to wait anyway. Now that the time has come and gone I'm ready to pull the trigger. So far it seems there are several aspects of the Galaxy Watch that would shoehorn me into the Samsung world, which I don't like. There are also a few features locked to Samsung devices. But I like the look of the Galaxy Watch a bit more, not enough for it to be a deal breaker though.
I use Google Fit for my health aggregation. Sleep for Android for sleeping, Strava for cycling/running, Fit for walking, FitBit for weight (with FitToFit syncing to Google Fit).
My other concern is that Samsung has Wear OS 3 and Gen 6 doesn't. Yes its coming, but its not there yet. I don't trust Fossil more than I can throw them so that is another reason I've been hesitant. I'm happy to have my irrational fears placated.
TL;DR Galaxy Watch 4 or Gen 6? Which do you have? Which would you pick? Why?
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